This past quarter we have been planning and implementing more events for our Community Members. I remember the excitement of the first in-person event with our BIPPers and the large group we assembled, around 50 Business Owners, everyone was so excited, hugging and thrilled to be ‘out-out’.
I want to share this, so you, as the reader can perhaps make sense of why you find large events tiring and overwhelming.
Each of us have our own capacity to manage life, business and our own sense of overwhelm. We can all go out now, and yet, many of us spend our time in isolation at home, working in solitude. The Pandemic changed society and changed behaviour, habits and mindsets.
This week, I want to ponder with you why we have made the conscious decision to host smaller events at BIP100 and why this intimacy is crucial for genuine connection.
Many of us find solace in smaller, more intimate settings, and this is why…
- Historically, our lives were filled with constant, in-person stimulation—from packed office environments to large-scale networking events.
- Now many of us are becoming more introspective, perhaps even more introverted, finding ourselves overwhelmed by what used to energise us. We can sense a growing trend toward seeking depth over breadth, quality over quantity.
- At BIP100, we’ve noticed that large events, while grandiose, often leave individuals feeling disconnected and lost in the crowd.
- The noise and the numbers can make personal connection challenging, if not superficial.
- Smaller gatherings ensure that every voice is heard, every story shared is acknowledged, and every member feels seen. This shift isn’t just a logistical choice; it’s a response to a deeper craving in today’s society—a longing for real, heartfelt interactions.
Lonely in a Crowd? Why do we feel lonely even when surrounded by others?
- It’s a phenomenon that’s becoming more apparent as our work environments have transitioned to remote settings and our desks have become our new, quieter offices.
- The shift has left many of us feeling isolated, yearning for meaningful interactions rather than just transactional exchanges. Small events bridge this gap by fostering a space where intimacy isn’t just possible; it’s the foundation.
- These intimate settings allow us all to dive into meaningful discussions, build trust, and develop genuine relationships.
- They counteract the exhaustion of online overload and the superficiality that can come with it.
- By choosing smaller events, we cater to those who, like us, are seeking more than just a network—they’re seeking a community.
As we continue to adapt to the changing landscapes of our personal and professional lives, let’s cherish the small gatherings that remind us of the power of true connection.
This week, I encourage you to ponder your own needs, perhaps seek out spaces where intimacy thrives, where you can connect deeply and leave feeling fulfilled, not just another face in the crowd. It is a basic human need to be seen, understood and to receive and give contribution to others.
Thank you for reading my Ponderings, I cannot tell you how excited I feel when I sit down to write them knowing that many of you actually do read and act on my shared needs and thoughts, have a super week.
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